Hi all
I have a 10 year old male African Grey, who goes by the name of Gizmo (Gizzy, Pip, Beautiful Boy), which ever he chooses to use!!!
I assume he is male, when I bought him at 12 weeks old, the breeder said he was male, so I've just taken that as read. Throughout his life he has always preferred females, so I just took that as another sign he was male.
He used to be great friends with my Dad, but after the first time Giz bit him, my Dad never went near him again. So I was basically his primary carer and entertainer from him being about 8 months old.
In hindsight my family home was not the best place to put a young bird into, my Dad always having to be the alpha male, and shouting to get his point across, and my mum obsessed with cleanliness (you can't be obsessed with cleanliness when you have a parrot around!).
From about 2 years old Gizmo feathered plucked. So that was around the last time he flew properly.
3 years ago, I moved into a house share with a group of people. They have tried their hardest to make Gizmo like them. And he now has bags of confidence, and will take food from all of them, and be picked up by each of them.
The problem lies with Craig, the only male housemate. Craig has tried the hardest with Gizmo. Gizmo copies everything Craig says, and whistles, "mummy is special" being one of his favourites (and I thought Craig was my friend!). He takes food from Craig, sits on Craig's lap while he tickles his head. However, it is very hit and miss as to whether he is going to be friendly to Craig, or bite him. I'm very good at reading Gizmo's body language, and have taught Craig the signs to look out for if he is going to bite. The full feathers, eye pinning etc. However, Gizmo is very good at giving off mixed signals, putting his head down, saying "tickle" even rolling over for Craig, and then taking a lump out of his hand, when Craig goes to tickle.
Gizmo is obviously happy where we are living because he has allowed his feathers to grow back, and is on the verge of flying again. He can land and take off, but can't keep himself up for long, so I think he just needs to get his muscle back again.
My main concern is what is going to happen when Giz learns to fly properly. He won't have to wait for someone to approach him before he attacks, he'll be able to do it at will. So I really need some advice on training him again, and what to do to stop the pretence of "I love you", before he attacks!
I must stress that he never attacks me, or the females in the house, just Craig.